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THE “EVERYBODY’S DOING IT” EXCUSE

Q. My “tween” is always saying “Everybody does it” or “Everybody says it.” I know this is an excuse to try to get her own way or get things she wants. But I’m really getting tired of hearing it. Where does this end? Frustrated Mom

A. It ends only when you don’t cave in to her pleas and you put a stop to it. Think about that “everybody” excuse. Did you ever ask her for the numbers, as in exactly who or how many or which of her friends are doing this or saying this or wearing that? Try talking to her about facts versus exaggeration. Then talk about how you hope she will be true to her own values and yours, and not just follow along after others like a sheep whenever a fad or trend appears.

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